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READY Assessment

Are you actually ready for marriage — or just ready to date?

This comprehensive assessment looks at your emotional, spiritual and relational preparedness across key areas. You receive compassionate, direct feedback that affirms your strengths and gives practical steps for growth.

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Who it’s for

  • Singles who want to know where they stand — ideally before you start dating
  • Anyone discerning whether they are ready for the vocation of marriage

115 questions for men and 116 for women, answered Yes, Sometimes or No

What your report includes

  • Your overall readiness, and how you scored in each of the eight areas
  • Your key strengths
  • Your growth priorities, highest impact first
  • Guidance on specific answers that need attention
  • Next steps for growth

What it covers

  • Self-possession and identity

    Emotional maturity, self-knowledge and the ability to sacrifice.

  • Family background

    The family patterns that shaped your idea of love and relationships.

  • Understanding of marriage

    Marriage as a sacrament: permanence, the gift of self and openness to life.

  • Freedom

    Habits, wounds or attachments that could limit your freedom to give yourself in marriage.

  • Relational skills

    Communication, conflict, boundaries and trust.

  • Spiritual foundation

    Prayer, the sacraments, virtue and community.

  • Dating readiness

    Emotional availability, practical stability and healthy patterns.

  • Hidden blockers

    The less obvious fears and habits that can quietly hold you back.

How it works

  1. 1Tell us what you’re interested in. Use the form to choose the assessments you’d like.
  2. 2Katie sends your questionnaire. You receive a private online questionnaire for each assessment.
  3. 3Complete it on your own time. Answer honestly and in one sitting if you can. Couples each complete their own questionnaire separately.
  4. 4Katie writes your report. She reviews your answers and sends you a personal written report.
  5. 5Review it together. Book a coaching session with Katie to go through your results and your next steps.

This assessment is a tool for formation and discernment, not psychological testing, diagnosis or therapy. Katie may use an AI writing tool to help draft your report. She reviews and edits every report herself before it is sent.

Are you actually ready for marriage — or just ready to date?

Fees are shared before you begin, or on a free discovery call if you’d like to talk first.

Request the READY Assessment