Catholic Dating Profile

You can’t give what you don’t possess. Start by knowing who you are.

You’ve done everything “right” — and you’re still alone, confused, exhausted. St. Teresa of Avila taught: “Know thyself.” The Catholic Dating Profile brings together your temperament, love languages, attachment style and virtues to reveal your personality, the hidden wounds keeping you stuck in patterns, and the strengths to celebrate.

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Who it’s for

Singles struggling to understand why dating feels so hard
Anyone who wants to understand who they are before giving themselves to someone else

85 questions in four parts

What your report includes

How your temperament, love languages, attachment style and virtues work together
Your strengths and your growth areas
The dating blockers your answers reveal
How you communicate, and what complements you in a partner
Spiritual guidance and a Daily Plan of Life
Practical next steps and a closing prayer

What it covers

Temperament
Sanguine, choleric, melancholic or phlegmatic: how God designed you to engage the world, and what it means for dating.
Love languages
How you give and receive love, and how it connects to the Catholic understanding of the gift of self.
Attachment style
The patterns from your past that shape how you connect today, and where healing can begin.
Virtues (the Matrix)
Your masculine or feminine genius: the character traits that shape your readiness for love.

How it works

1Tell us what you’re interested in. Use the form to choose the assessments you’d like.
2Katie sends your questionnaire. You receive a private online questionnaire for each assessment.
3Complete it on your own time. Answer honestly and in one sitting if you can. Couples each complete their own questionnaire separately.
4Katie writes your report. She reviews your answers and sends you a personal written report.
5Review it together. Book a coaching session with Katie to go through your results and your next steps.

This assessment is a tool for formation and discernment, not psychological testing, diagnosis or therapy. Katie may use an AI writing tool to help draft your report. She reviews and edits every report herself before it is sent.