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Adam Eve Matrix

How are your virtues and vices affecting your relationships?

The Matrix looks at nine character traits rooted in the cardinal virtues and in your masculine or feminine genius. Take it for yourself, or use it to look honestly at someone you’re dating, so you can discern with wisdom, not just feelings.

Who it’s for

  • Anyone who wants an honest look at their own character
  • Someone who is dating and wants to see the other person clearly

9 questions, about 2 minutes

What your report includes

  • Your overall Matrix score and what it means
  • Strengths to build on
  • Growth areas: the vices and habits that may be holding your relationships back
  • How you measure up across the four cardinal virtues
  • Practical steps for growth

Taking the Matrix for someone you’re dating gives you an honest picture of their character to help you discern your next step. It reflects your own observations, not their answers.

What it covers

  • Faithfulness and trustworthiness

    The traits that carry the most weight in a lasting relationship.

  • Selflessness

    The willingness to sacrifice for another.

  • Communication and discipline

    How well you connect, and how well you govern yourself.

  • Masculine and feminine genius

    Leadership, provision and self-mastery in a man; nurturing and receptivity in a woman.

  • The cardinal virtues

    Prudence, justice, fortitude and temperance.

How it works

  1. 1Tell us what you’re interested in. Use the form to choose the assessments you’d like.
  2. 2Katie sends your questionnaire. You receive a private online questionnaire for each assessment.
  3. 3Complete it on your own time. Answer honestly and in one sitting if you can. Couples each complete their own questionnaire separately.
  4. 4Katie writes your report. She reviews your answers and sends you a personal written report.
  5. 5Review it together. Book a coaching session with Katie to go through your results and your next steps.

This assessment is a tool for formation and discernment, not psychological testing, diagnosis or therapy. Katie may use an AI writing tool to help draft your report. She reviews and edits every report herself before it is sent.

How are your virtues and vices affecting your relationships?

Fees are shared before you begin, or on a free discovery call if you’d like to talk first.

Request the Adam Eve Matrix