Assessments and profiles
Know what love is. Become able to choose it.
Assessments designed to help individuals and couples navigate dating and engagement discernment, with a personal report from Katie and a session to talk it through.
Sound familiar?
- “Why do relationships seem so difficult for me?”
- “Something is just off and I can’t name it.”
- “Am I actually ready for marriage — or just ready to date?”
- “How do I know if he or she is the one?”
- “Are we ready to get engaged?”
- “I want to use my assessment results but don’t know where to start.”
The assessments
Catholic Dating Profile
You can’t give what you don’t possess. Start by knowing who you are.
Your temperament, love languages, attachment style and virtues, brought together in one profile.
Learn more →READY Assessment
Are you actually ready for marriage — or just ready to date?
An honest look at your emotional, spiritual and relational readiness for marriage.
Learn more →Adam Eve Matrix
How are your virtues and vices affecting your relationships?
Nine character traits rooted in the cardinal virtues. Take it for yourself, or for someone you’re dating.
Learn more →Before Forever Survey
Considering engagement? Discern the next step with confidence.
A couples survey on faith, communication, family, finances and more, completed by each partner separately.
Learn more →
Which one is right for me?
- You’re single and want to understand yourself firstCatholic Dating Profile
- You’re wondering whether you’re ready for marriageREADY Assessment
- You’re dating someone and want to see clearlyAdam Eve Matrix
- You and your partner are discerning engagementBefore Forever Survey
Not sure? Book a free discovery call and Katie will help you choose.
How it works
- 1
Tell us what you’re interested in
Use the form to choose the assessments you’d like.
- 2
Katie sends your questionnaire
You receive a private online questionnaire for each assessment.
- 3
Complete it on your own time
Answer honestly and in one sitting if you can. Couples each complete their own questionnaire separately.
- 4
Katie writes your report
She reviews your answers and sends you a personal written report.
- 5
Review it together
Book a coaching session with Katie to go through your results and your next steps.
Good to know
- How do I complete the questionnaire?
- After you send the form, Katie emails you a private online questionnaire for each assessment you chose. You can complete it on your own time.
- Who sees my answers?
- Katie, who uses them only to prepare your report. For the Before Forever Survey, each partner answers separately, and your answers are brought together in one couple’s report that both of you receive.
- Is this a psychological test or therapy?
- No. These assessments are tools for formation and discernment rooted in Catholic teaching. They are not psychological testing, diagnosis or therapy.
- Does Katie use AI?
- Katie may use an AI writing tool to help draft your report. She reviews and edits every report herself before it is sent.
- Is the Before Forever Survey the same as FOCCUS?
- No. The survey is our own questionnaire. The Before Forever pre-engagement program uses the FOCCUS Inventory, which is separate.
- What does it cost?
- Fees are shared before you begin, or on a free discovery call if you’d like to talk first.
Formation, not diagnosis
These assessments help you reflect, grow and discern. They are not psychological testing, diagnosis or therapy, and they do not replace professional care.
If you are in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline), call 1-800-799-7233 (National Domestic Violence Hotline), or call 911 in an emergency.
Get started
Request an assessment
Please allow a few days for a response.